Goals 🌎

  • goal tells you where you’re going tomorrow
  • system tells you what to do today

1. Why you need goals

Every time I read about people who claim you shouldn’t set goals, I get upset. It’s possibly the worst advice one could receive.

When someone is telling you not to set goals, they are essentially saying you should stop moving forward.

Goals are inherent to human nature. We thrive on progress. We need something to strive for. If we don’t have a vision of what our future could look like, why would we do anything at all?

It’s the classic question that philosophers and scientists have examined since the start of modern civilization. Over and over again, we’ve learned that we need goals to grow.

. Why you need systems

Systems have different meanings to people. For example, Scott Adams, the author of How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, did a great job explaining how systems work for him. He doesn’t set goals and only has systems. That’s not how I look at it.

Once we set goals, we know that we have to put in the work to achieve them. That’s when systems come into play.

It comes down to this: What do I need to do EVERY DAY to achieve the goals I desire?

Let’s say you want to become financially independent by age 50. You might think:

  • I need to save at least 30% of my income
  • I need to increase my income yearly
  • I need to be mentally strong so that I can do my job
  • I need to be in good shape, so I don’t get ill and have high energy
  • I need to learn every day, so I get better at my job
  • I need to look at my goals every day to remind myself of where I’m going
  • I need to reflect on the past to learn and be grateful for where I am

Alright, congratulations. You have created a system. When you do the above things, you will make progress, no matter what.

One thing we must be aware of is that we keep an open mind: Goals and systems change all the time. Don’t fixate on one thing for a long time. Change your goals and systems as your priorities change.

3. Why you need higher goals

We’ve established that we need both goals and systems to live a good life. Here’s what I’ve learned over the past few years.

Set higher goals!

No, you don’t need to make 10 million bucks. That’s just your superficial brain speaking for you.

Set the bar higher for yourself.

  • Become the best at your job.
  • Become stronger, fitter, and smarter than ever
  • Have divine relationships

Shweets … (why are you so important to me?❣

I talk to many people, but why do your late replies Almost kill me?

All my friends talk to other people and i don’t mind, but why do i mind it when uou talk to anyone els.

I have never craved anyone’s presence, but why does your absence make me cry ?

I never go back to anyone if they’ve hutt me , but why do i keep giving you multiple chances?

I’ve never shown anyone my vulnerable side , but why can’t hide it from you ?

I think maybe because we have something pure between us which i can’t express in words. Maybe , I really Love you the Most 💗

PAST

Happy to be me ,in the morning
Happy to be me in the night!
Sorry, i’am not sorry
When everything is forgot!

No one can teach me how to be,
I can’t be what i ‘am not,
When You remember me
I am gonna call You:PAST!

So Farewell from my heart dear stranger,
It’s time for You ,to come-back home
My love will be your ghost,Forever
So Farewell to you,i am gone!

Happy to be the real me!
My future,has became my present
I am stronger as a lion
So, Farewell,to you..dear stranger!

Vicky💞

Tired to Pretending

I wish that I was just like them

They’re happy while I’m not

Can’t see the sadness

Through their faces,

but eyes don’t lie.

Big thing that I learned in the

more recent years

Everyone suffer, but kept on

Pretending everythings good

Same as me

So tired of living this kind of life

Tired of pretending that I’m happy

That I’m fearless, that I’m strong.

But the truth is

I’m scared of everything

Scared that em’ not good enough

Scared of rejections

I’m so weak that I can’t face

My own problems

I’m weak enough that can be

Destroy by everyone

That’s how life goes

This is my life.

We are just friends ❤

“Distance friendship come Relationships”

They are just too much to handle.. actually they are quite interesting you have always a new topic to fight on. The main element in every relationship is trust. It is easy to trust when a person is in front of you, when you can keep a watch on the activity of your partner and when you can observe that person on your own. But when it comes to distance relationship it’s like walking on a sharp edged sword. You are 24×7 wearing a blindfold and walking on a narrow road with dungeon on both sides. If a single glitch enters than it becomes even more challenging. Sometimes after one bad experience a perpetual fear develops that this distance might bring that person close to someone’s else physical presence. And this fear always maintains a constant cold war between the two hearts. The best part of these wars is that they always end on a good note by increasing the love between them. Every fight gives them reason to love each other more and more. The justifications reassure them that they are still madly in love with each other. They never leave each other even after all these incessantly occurring fights thus making their bond more and more strong. They cross all the hurdles together as in these relationships there are thousands of people who are ready to stand as a hurdle between them. At times these wars are just for fun because you want to hear those loving words from your partner, you want him to pamper you, to caress you, to shower his ceaseless love…..

We are just friends ❤

“Distance friendship come Relationships”

They are just too much to handle.. actually they are quite interesting you have always a new topic to fight on. The main element in every relationship is trust. It is easy to trust when a person is in front of you, when you can keep a watch on the activity of your partner and when you can observe that person on your own. But when it comes to distance relationship it’s like walking on a sharp edged sword. You are 24×7 wearing a blindfold and walking on a narrow road with dungeon on both sides. If a single glitch enters than it becomes even more challenging. Sometimes after one bad experience a perpetual fear develops that this distance might bring that person close to someone’s else physical presence. And this fear always maintains a constant cold war between the two hearts. The best part of these wars is that they always end on a good note by increasing the love between them. Every fight gives them reason to love each other more and more. The justifications reassure them that they are still madly in love with each other. They never leave each other even after all these incessantly occurring fights thus making their bond more and more strong. They cross all the hurdles together as in these relationships there are thousands of people who are ready to stand as a hurdle between them. At times these wars are just for fun because you want to hear those loving words from your partner, you want him to pamper you, to caress you, to shower his ceaseless love…..

Just i still love you from the bottm of my heart.. bottem

The blessings of god

for you and me

its all I do

pray god and love you

But you could never understand me, my feelings and thoughts

coz you were always within yourself and thought about me never

I m alive but without you

in your absence,

I live my past

and small glimpse of those moments

fills my eyes with tears

I remember those moments

when we were happy

but now those are only

glimpse of memories

I hope for all those

beautiful moments

to come back

again into our life

but all in vain,

I know my dream will not be successful

and I will be in alonity

time and again

Now I am alone

without you

and in your presence you are never with me

I m alone and now I have to accept it

and fill my life with this never ending alonity

with alonity and more alonity

now I have to make it my best fren

and life time company

which fills my every moment

with darkness

and only darkness

Vicky hicky…

I scored just passing marks in English (37/100) in 12th and hardly managed to pass overall. Before that I couldn’t complete my engineering too and was labeled as a failure. Presently I am the working with Biggest 5 star Hotel in Mumbai wth having Degree from top central govt. Institute as well as doing post graduation from Top college In Mumbai Ruia. Also good in French and german And I am a writer of 1 my own book and script writer at WorldPress.still having 9 job opportunities over the world . So I think I haven’t done yet … i am still 0 … OK 🙂 now m travilung

This was all chutiyapa happens wth one n nly guy… like me… u knw na me …

So come to the point … i was scared about to die in live witht you .. by blessing to each others ….

So clearly i say ki how much i get it frm you ..and how much i awaited for ui… so its was an just an memorial experience happn without you … so became u daddy is nt nly ..its nt happpn … bcs ofcrs..so finally i at home… aftr long time a ago… and now include the gorges apart from

My new relationship with Reading // Reading Struggles ♥️

Hey guys, this is going to a super long post so I hope you’re ready. I have been trying to find my place with reading lately. I have been in about 3 book slumps recently and it really made me think about what’s changed.

I have been blogging for almost a year to date. It has been fun, stressful, and I loved every minute of it. I’ve really been through so many things that helped me find out what kind of reader I was. Also, what’s important to me and where I see myself going with reading in the future.

The number one thing that is important to me is that reading is what I do to relax and escape the stress of life. It shouldn’t feel like an obligation that I have to do.

This has been my biggest struggle since I started my book blog. When you first start out, you want to read as much as you can so you can have always have content available. That’s understandable. It’s when you start to find yourself in the process of makingyourself read. This is the worst thing that can happen to a book reader in my opinion.

Reading should be fun! It should make you happy every time you open a book. Not stressed because you need to finish it by a certain date and time.

I don’t think I’m cut out for buddy reading. Either I read too much or I read less than the days reading. Both make me feel like shit when I’m supposed to be reading with another person. I’d so much rather we read it on our own time and then fangirl about it after we have read the book. There’s less stress and I don’t feel guilty. That’s a win-win!

This next one is something that I have never wanted to say, but since I’m pouring out all my bookish thoughts, why not?! I’d rather stay away from sensitive topics.

I don’t read to better myself. I honestly just love losing myself in the pages. If you haven’t noticed, I hardly ever read books that are about sensitive topics. Most of the time I read contemporaries. Either adult or YA contemporizes, but all are on the more light side. Want to know why? Happy endings! I honestly just want to get away from the stress of life so I really don’t want to read something that’s super emotional or about hard topics.

Speaking of stress, there are three main reasons for me being stressed about reading lately. ARCS, deadlines, and running out of content.

I feel like ARCS and deadlines go hand in hand. Now before I get some hate comments; Yes, I know how privileged I am as a US blogger to have an opportunity to receive ARCS (physical or eGalley). I get that. What I didn’t anticipate, was the stress that came along with it. While I still request some, I have completely taken a step back from requesting all the time. You don’t have to stay on top of new releases to be a good book blogger. I have honestly fallen back in love with reading lately by reading backlisted titles. With all of the reading slumps I’ve been in lately, running out of content is scary to me. I am so type A that I have to have at least 5 posts scheduled at a time. If I don’t, then I start to freak out. I’m scared of having nothing to post.

I want to say that I’ll just brush this off and won’t let it phase me. Gosh, I wish it was that easy! but knowing what’s wrong is the first step right? Well, I’m just going to take it day by day instead of always needing to have a plan. Read what I want, when I want, and see how it goes.

So there’s my super personal reading update. If you made it this far honestly I’ll be shocked. As I’m typing this, I’m honestly feeling a little better. Sometimes putting your thoughts into words is really all you need. There wasn’t an endgame for this post. Just putting all my thoughts out there just in case someone was feeling the same.


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